I know I need to, I just don’t know how to find the strength to leave her
I am miserable in my relationship. We’ve been together for over 4 years now and things were great in the early days. We really made each other happy. Recently though things have changed. I think she’s fallen out of love with me but she doesn’t want to break up. She openly flirts with other guys in front of me and I recently found evidence that she has been cheating on me. When I confronted her, she wasn’t even shy about admitting it but still, she doesn’t want to break up. What do I do?
Well, I don’t think you need to focus so much on finding the strength to leave her, you need to find to focus more on finding love for yourself. Obviously, we can’t get the full picture of your relationship from a few lines but based on what you’ve said, she is using you and has no respect for you.
Staying in a relationship like that will only lower your esteem even further to the point where she will be able to bring other men into your bed and you will still stay with. If you can agree that that is not the kind of relationship you want to be in, then take a good look at your self in the mirror. Recognise and remember your true value and this will hopefully inspire you to find the necessary strength to leave her.