Have you ever seen an amazingly attractive woman and you have no idea what to say to her or how to start a conversation?

How to Start a ConversationIsn’t it strange how we spend our whole lives talking, yet when we are in the presence of a woman we find alluring, we’re reduced to a bumbling fool every time we try to start a conversation? Well no more!

Here are five conversation starters that you can use as of today to make conversation flow more easily with your next encounter


1. Ask for Fashion Advice

Most women are very interested in fashion, and just about all of them believe themselves to be experts about it, especially when it comes to giving advice to other people. Here is an example of a few opening questions you can use:

“What’s the first piece of clothing you look at on a man?”

2. Origin of her name

This is a nice and natural way on how to start a conversation with a woman as soon as you learn her name: Ask her what her name means.

If she doesn’t know, this would be a great opportunity to impress her by telling her. Of course, you’ll need to do your own research for this one, but the more you use it, the more knowledgeable you’ll get and the more interesting the conversations you’ll be able to start with women will be.

Of course, you should Learn the meaning and origin of your own name because she’ll probably ask you.

3. What are her Interests?

When it comes to how to start a conversation, we shouldn’t really have to be even telling you this one but ask her what she’s interested in and what she does for fun. Most people are only interested in speaking about the things they’re interested in. When they do ask someone else about their interests, they usually don’t listen very well.

You can set yourself apart from this majority by by not only asking her what her interests are, but by REALLY listening when she tells you.

Bear in mind that it’s better to ask “why” based questions when you’re discussing someone else’s interests. It helps you to learn more about their motives and get to know them but at the same time you don’t want to be too pushy and make the experience come across like a police investigation.

4. Read Current Events

Be sure to read the news and current events, and be up to speed with what is going on in the world. Things generally find their way into the news because they are interesting enough to get people talking. That ought to tell you something right there.

Of course, it’s important that you try and gauge the woman’s personality before you bust out with something really controversial. For instance, don’t start talking about animal rights if she’s wearing a fur coat. If you do this right, you can often get a strong conversation going really quickly.

5. The Abrupt Opening

This one is for the brave ones among us. The abrupt opening simply means starting a conversation as if it was already started. You do have to have a lot of confidence to get this one to work, but the results can be amazing if you get it right.

The key to success in this one is to walk up to a woman and pretend that you already know her. Then you simply ask an open-ended question which you normally would ask someone you know and that you had just run into.

For example, “Hey, what are you doing here?” Now come up with a few of these, and get practising on improving your skills on how to start a conversation with a beautiful woman.

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